Argh!

Argh! This is the best word I can use to describe how I'm feeling right now. It was the Mr's birthday yesterday and of course his parents visited. All was fine, they were late as usual but that's ok it was a special occasion so I'd allowed Ethan to stay up a little later than usual. They arrived, we chatted, we drank tea and Ethan pretended he was the roadrunner (beep beep). It was ok. Once Ethan was in bed (Helena was already asleep as she couldn't keep her eyes open before they arrived) it started. They have decided to pay for new sofas for our joint birthday present. That's great but considering the reason our current sofa is broken thanks to a certain little boy who thought he was superman, I'm a little put off by the idea. Our sofas are used a lot and not just for sitting. They are used to walk the plank, for napping on, as a base away from the lava floor and the odd accident happens on them too. We don't have the funds to put towards new sofas because we are paying off our very overdue wedding. Both kids are at the age where sofas are nothing more than playthings and will take a beating. I'm ok with that. It doesn't bother me if people come over and see our broken sofa. At the end of the day it was broken making memories. That's the most important part. We have decided to give in though as we feel we have no choice and I'm fed up at being nagged at by my 'soon to be' in laws. 

The other thing that was mentioned is my job again! This always comes up. For some reason they feel the need to job hunt for me. I'm not job hunting myself. I currently work more hours over the weekends then I did when my availability was 6 days a week. It works well for us. Both of us are at home of an evening to put the kids to bed. We can eat together, I'm not coming home after 10pm to eat my tea then go to bed after not seeing or talking to the Mr all day and this going on all week. My wages have increased and the biggest reason not for me to go anywhere at the moment is I'm enjoying my job. I love working weekends. I love seeing kids come to watch their first film and all the excitement that goes with it. I've always worked customer service roles. Sure I moan about the general public, there are some people that really need to check themselves before entering the building but I love the characters I come face to face with. I've met some lovely people in my job. One lady told me that when I go home to kiss my children and cherish them. I didn't know this lady and I've not seen her since but I did what she said. There's an autistic boy that comes in most weekends and he's such a darling. He always tells you a random fact when you see him. I look forward to him coming in as he brightens my day. 

Sometimes I think about working in an office environment but I think I'd miss the public. I've had two jobs in 9 years. I obviously don't feel the need to change jobs. I don't know what it is with my in laws deciding for me that I need to change my job. 

If I decide to change jobs in the near future I'm sure I'll let my in laws know but currently I'm happy where I am. 

We are finally chicken pox free! The littlest is dried up and the scabs are starting to fall off. Ethan has no scabs left just the marks as to where they were. Unfortunately as he has picked a couple off that look like they have scarred. I hope that as he is only 3 and a half that with time they will fade. So a healthy (almost) household.
Since going back to work I have been extremely tired. There's been evenings where I've had to retire to bed by 8 o'clock. Before children I used to work 14 hour split shifts, finish at 5am and be back at work before lunch time the next day and still manage to have a social life. Now I'm in my pajamas by 5pm! I don't want to sound like I'm moaning because I love being a parent and I actually do enjoy my job but I think I might of been burning the candle at both ends. Thankfully I have Sunday so my plans are for a huge amount of family time. I've not seen my parents in 3 weeks and they only live a 10 minute drive away.
The return to work was a very easy one. I didn't feel anxious or sad that I was leaving the kids at home (with their dad) all day or worried how he'd cope. Instead I found it empowering that I was going to be someone other than Ethan and Helana's mummy. I even enjoyed being away from the kids for a few hours a day.
There is a new CEO at our company and he seems great. He cares for the staff in a way that is new to me and wants to keep the staff on instead of accepting a high turnaround. We are now paid 30p higher than the national minimum wage and he has promised to raise our wages a further 10% by the end of the year. Yes we are still below the living wage but we aren't struggling and an extra 30p an hour will make quite the difference.
I'm not planning at staying at my job forever and to reflect this I started a online forensics course with the university of Strathclyde through future learn. So far I've not quite finished the first week and I have a little catching up to do but I am enjoying it. I don't know if this is a career path I'd choose though.
It's my birthday next week! I've got nothing planned but maybe we'll try to find the time to actually go out for dinner. The kids are going to hate it when they are older and having to buy presents as it is the Mr's two days before mine. I'm a year older than he is so for two whole days we were be the same age before I roll over in to another year. I've given him a list of things that I wouldn't mind but if he were to get none of them I wouldn't mind. I've asked for a new phone case and a cd among other things but nothing too exciting. To be honest being able to pee in peace would be a great birthday gift.

Christmas and more chicken pox

Ethan's chicken pox had cleared up enough by Christmas Day for us to stick to our original plans. It was the first day in 9 days that he had left the house. In my opinion Christmas Day was uneventful. It's all about the kids anyway and they were spoilt rotten.
I got some nice presents. I was really pleased with the in laws choices for me. There wasn't one thing that I didn't like. This is a major improvement to previous years.
Our new year was a quiet one. We were in bed by ten and I was asleep before midnight although the mr said he was awake by the time midnight rolled around. Too much emphasis is put on New Year's Eve. I've done the celebrating out in town and at parties but I prefer staying at home with the kids, a blanket, a film and some popcorn. Memories being made instead of memories being forgotten.
We were hoping Helana had dodged the chicken pox bullet but unfortunately on New Year's Eve the first few showed up. We are on day 4 right now and they don't look so angry but unfortunately she's got a worse case then her brother. She's covered all over her head and in the nappy area. She can't have antihistamines unless prescribed by a doctor because she's under one but she seems to be coping ok. She's still her happy self and still has her hunger.
I returned to work today after nearly eleven months off. I thought I'd really miss the kids and the day would drag but it was ok. The thing I did find annoying was all the paper work I had to redo and I had to have a induction. I have been working for the same company for five years in march so a little pointless considering not much has changed at all. Oh well I enjoyed myself but I'm very tired now so much so that I am considering going to bed now and it's only 6:35pm!